Overcoming Success: Leaving Social Media & Finding Authenticity
Key insights
- 💼 Vanessa felt overwhelmed and overextended, leading to a loss of personal identity and integrity within her business, which ultimately drove her decision to stop.
- 📈 The pressure to continuously grow, meet commitments, and keep up with high expectations resulted in stress, financial strain, and self-sabotage.
- 🔍 Vanessa fell into the comparison trap, leading to impostor syndrome, and struggled to maintain authenticity in her business decisions.
- 🌟 Taking a year off social media helped the speaker discover their self-worth, new values, and healthy habits, emphasizing the importance of non-transactional relationships and seeing others as equals.
- 🛑 The decision to leave social media and dissolve the business was driven by a realization that continuing was no longer aligned with personal integrity.
- 💡 The speaker plans to share insights on simplifying content creation and earning in the Creator economy, emphasizing the importance of aligning career with personal values.
- 🙏 Gratitude for the support received and recognition of the value in aligning career with personal values in the Creator economy are highlighted.
- ❤️ Struggling to maintain authenticity, the speaker found it difficult to connect with their own creations and ultimately decided to shut down their business and courses for personal well-being.
Q&A
What does the speaker plan to share insights on?
The speaker plans to share insights on simplifying content creation and earning in the Creator economy, emphasizing the importance of aligning career with personal values.
What did the person emphasize after taking a year off social media?
After taking a year off social media, the person emphasized the importance of non-transactional relationships and seeing others as equals. They discovered their self-worth, new values, and healthy habits during the break, and expressed gratitude for the support and patience received during the sabbatical.
What realization led to the decision to shut down the business and courses?
The speaker realized they were losing their own identity by trying to replicate the success of others. They found it difficult to maintain integrity in their business as they felt disconnected from their own creations and decisions, ultimately leading to the decision to shut down their business and courses for personal well-being.
What factors led Vanessa to the decision to stop her business?
Adding more team members led to increased expenses, pressure, and responsibilities. Launching a Mastermind led to unanticipated responsibilities such as event planning and sales calls. Falling into the scale, sunk cost, and identity traps made it difficult to stop and reevaluate the business. Overcommitting to high-ticket clients and promises led to feeling overwhelmed and unable to maintain business integrity. The decision to stop was driven by a loss of personal identity within the business and a realization that continuing was no longer aligned with integrity.
Why did Vanessa decide to leave social media and dissolve her successful business?
Vanessa decided to leave social media and dissolve her successful business at the height of her career due to feeling overwhelmed, overextended, and unable to maintain integrity in the business. The pressure to continuously grow, meet commitments, and keep up with high expectations resulted in a loss of personal identity within the business.
What are the key messages emphasized by the speaker regarding their Creator career?
The speaker expressed gratitude for their Creator career and emphasized the importance of aligning their career with personal values. They also intend to share insights on simplifying content creation and earning in the Creator economy, aiming to inspire others to find alignment and success in their pursuits.
What did the speaker discover during their year off social media and why is it significant?
During the year off social media, the speaker discovered their self-worth, new values, and healthy habits. They emphasized the importance of non-transactional relationships and seeing others as equals. This reflection helped them realign with their personal values and develop healthier perspectives and habits.
How did the speaker's pursuit of success affect their sense of identity and integrity in their business?
The speaker realized they were losing their own identity by trying to replicate the success of others, which made it difficult to maintain integrity in their business decisions. As a result, they felt disconnected from their own creations and ultimately decided to shut down their business and courses for their personal well-being.
What were the key factors that made it difficult for the speaker to continue their business?
The speaker faced challenges such as overcommitting to high-ticket clients, falling into the scale, sunk cost, and identity traps, which made it difficult to stop and reevaluate the business. Furthermore, adding more team members led to increased expenses, pressure, and unanticipated responsibilities, contributing to the decision to stop.
How did the speaker's pursuit of success lead to self-sabotage and financial strain?
The speaker's pursuit of success led to falling into a comparison trap, impostor syndrome, and the pressure to please others, which caused self-sabotage, stress, and financial strain. Additionally, they fell into the scale trap by creating excessive expenses to maintain a certain image.
What led Vanessa to leave social media and dissolve her successful business?
Vanessa decided to leave social media and dissolve her successful business at the height of her career due to feeling overwhelmed, overextended, and unable to maintain integrity in the business. The pressure to continuously grow, meet commitments, and keep up with high expectations resulted in a loss of personal identity within the business.
- 00:00 Vanessa made the decision to leave social media and dissolve her successful business at the peak of her career, reflecting on the journey that led her to that point.
- 06:52 The speaker scaled up their online business, met successful people, but fell into a comparison trap, leading to impostor syndrome. The pressure to please others and unrealistic standards caused self-sabotage, stress, and financial strain. This led to the scale trap, creating excessive expenses to maintain a certain image.
- 13:33 Feeling overwhelmed, overextended, and unable to maintain integrity in the business led to making the decision to stop. The pressure to continuously grow, meet commitments, and keep up with high expectations resulted in a loss of personal identity within the business.
- 20:09 The speaker realized they were losing their own identity by trying to replicate the success of others. They found it difficult to maintain integrity in their business as they felt disconnected from their own creations and decisions, ultimately leading to the decision to shut down their business and courses.
- 26:51 A person reflects on their decision to take a year off social media and how it helped them discover their self-worth, new values, and healthy habits. They emphasize the importance of non-transactional relationships and seeing others as equals. The person feels grateful for the support received during their break.
- 33:35 The speaker is grateful for the support received, expresses love for the Creator career, emphasizes the importance of aligning career with personal values, and plans to share insights on simplifying content creation and earning in the Creator economy.