Key insights

• 💑 Mismatched sexual desire is common in long-term relationships, often due to changes in desire and stress from career and parenting. It's important to communicate and compromise to find what works for both partners.
• 🔥 Men often have spontaneous desire while women tend to have responsive desire. Responsive desire means women may need time and stimulation to become aroused.
• 💞 Navigating the differences in sexual desire is essential for a satisfying relationship.
• 🌹 Tips for improving intimacy: reduce stress, share household responsibilities, schedule time for intimacy, prioritize each other, and explore new things together.
• 🚽 Postvoid dribble, also known as after dribble, is a common issue in men. Causes of postvoid dribble include an enlarged prostate as men age.
• ⚠️ Symptoms of enlarged prostate include trouble urinating and postvoid dribble. Enlarged prostate or weak pelvic floor muscles can cause urine dribbling.
• 🚺 The vagina is self-cleaning; use soap only on hair-bearing areas. Frequent urination can indicate overactive bladder.
• 💡 Frequent urination can be caused by muscle tension and reactions in the body, leading to a constant urge to urinate. Medical interventions are available to address frequent urination.
• 🩸 Body maintains good blood flow to genitals even without sex. Erectile dysfunction often due to age-related blood flow problems or health issues.

Q&A

• Is pursuing fetishes or kinks acceptable?

  Finding certain things attractive is influenced by various factors, and pursuing fetishes or kinks is acceptable if done in a safe and consensual manner. It's crucial to prioritize communication and mutual consent in such matters.

• What are the potential causes of erectile dysfunction?

  Erectile dysfunction is often due to age-related blood flow problems or other health issues. It's crucial to seek medical attention to address these concerns effectively.

• How can frequent urination be managed at home?

  Monitoring fluid intake, avoiding bladder irritants, and addressing constipation and weight loss can help manage frequent urination. However, consulting a urologist is essential to evaluate and address the issue effectively.

• What factors can contribute to frequent urination?

  Frequent urination can be caused by various factors, including overactive bladder, muscle tension, irritants, constipation, and weight loss. Standing for extended periods or holding urine for long durations can also lead to bladder stretching and dysfunction. Pelvic floor dysfunction can cause urinary frequency as well.

• Is vaginal odor usual, and how should it be managed?

  Vaginal odor is natural and doesn't need special soap. It's essential to use gentle soap only on hair-bearing areas as using regular soap on the internal part of the vagina may disrupt the microbiome, leading to further complications.

• What are the symptoms of an enlarged prostate and how is it related to urinary issues?

  In men, symptoms of an enlarged prostate include trouble urinating and postvoid dribble. An enlarged prostate or weak pelvic floor muscles can lead to urinary dribbling. Pelvic floor muscle exercises and milking the urine out can help manage this issue.

• What is postvoid dribble, and what causes it?

  Postvoid dribble, also known as after dribble, is a common issue in men and can be caused by an enlarged prostate among other reasons. It refers to the loss of a few drops of urine after completing urination, and it's essential to address the potential underlying causes, especially with age-related symptoms like an enlarged prostate.

• How to improve intimacy in a relationship?

  Tips for improving intimacy include reducing stress, sharing household responsibilities, scheduling time for intimacy, prioritizing each other, and exploring new things together. These actions can help strengthen the bond and maintain a satisfying relationship.

• What are common reasons for mismatched sexual desire in long-term relationships?

  Mismatched sexual desire is common in long-term relationships, often due to changes in desire and stress from career and parenting. Men often have spontaneous desire while women tend to have responsive desire, meaning they may need time and stimulation to become aroused. Navigating the differences in sexual desire is essential for a satisfying relationship.

• 00:00 Mismatched sexual desire is common in long-term relationships, often due to changes in desire and stress from career and parenting. It's important to communicate, compromise, and find what works for both partners.
• 03:38 Tips for improving intimacy: reduce stress, share household responsibilities, schedule time for intimacy, prioritize each other, and explore new things together. Postvoid dribble, common issue in men, can be caused by an enlarged prostate among other reasons.
• 06:52 As people age, they may experience symptoms of an enlarged prostate, such as trouble urinating and postvoid dribble. Enlarged prostate or weak pelvic floor muscles can lead to dribbling of urine. Pelvic floor muscle exercises and milking the urine out can help. Vaginal odor is natural and doesn't need special soap; using soap in the internal part of the vagina may disrupt the microbiome.
• 10:34 The vagina is self-cleaning; use gentle soap only on hair-bearing areas. Frequent urination may be a sign of overactive bladder. Various factors, including blockages and neurologic conditions, can affect bladder function. Standing all day or holding urine for long periods may lead to bladder stretching and dysfunction. Pelvic floor dysfunction can also cause urinary frequency.
• 14:23 Understanding the potential reasons for frequent urination, including muscle tension and irritants; recommendations for addressing the issue at home; the impact of constipation and weight loss on bladder symptoms; and the potential medical interventions available.
• 17:30 The body maintains good blood flow to the genitals even when not having sex. Erectile dysfunction is often due to age-related blood flow problems or other health issues. Finding certain things attractive is influenced by various factors, and pursuing fetishes or kinks is acceptable if done in a safe and consensual manner.