YouTuber's Struggles: Fatherhood, Mental Health, and Starting Over
Key insights
- βΈοΈ Adjusting to fatherhood and struggling with sleep deprivation due to their son's sleeping issues led to mental health challenges and feeling trapped by the business.
- π€― Struggles with managing a business, hiring employees, and facing burnout. Made a difficult decision to let go of the entire staff. Also faced the challenge of starting over in a new country.
- π Struggling with new routines, relationships, and parenting while feeling unhappy and uninspired, the creator realized the need to align work with true passion and happiness.
- πͺ The creator faced a breakdown but is now back and excited about creating videos again, emphasizing the importance of creating for mental health and fulfillment.
- π₯ Matt D'Avella is back on YouTube with new projects including regular videos, a short-form podcast, a new YouTube channel, and a weekly newsletter. He expresses gratitude to his audience for their support and looks forward to the next chapter.
Q&A
What new projects and content can viewers expect from the creator?
The creator is returning with regular videos, a short-form podcast called 'Three Rules,' a new YouTube channel called Bonus D'Avella, and a weekly newsletter. They are grateful for the audience's support and look forward to the next chapter.
How did the creator deal with their breakdown and what is their current stance on creating videos?
The creator faced a breakdown but is now back and excited about creating videos again, emphasizing the importance of creating for mental health and fulfillment.
What led the YouTuber to realize the need for change in their work and life?
Living away from family and feeling unhappy and uninspired despite success prompted the creator to seek alignment between work and true passion and happiness. They desired to regain the excitement and fulfillment they once felt.
How did the YouTuber cope with the challenges of managing a business?
The YouTuber faced struggles with managing a business, hiring employees, and experiencing burnout. They eventually made the difficult decision to let go of the entire staff and also had to navigate starting over in a new country.
What struggles did the YouTuber face while adjusting to fatherhood?
The YouTuber struggled with sleep deprivation due to their son's sleeping issues, leading to mental health challenges. They also found it difficult to manage the impact on their business and their partner's diagnosed PTSD from their baby's crying.
What were the reasons for the YouTuber's long break from making videos?
The YouTuber took a break to adjust to fatherhood, cope with feeling trapped by the business, start over in a new country, and combat boredom with work.
- 00:00Β A YouTuber returns after a long break and discusses the reasons for stepping away, including adjusting to fatherhood, feeling trapped by business, starting over in a new country, and getting bored with work.
- 03:14Β Struggling with sleep deprivation due to their son's sleeping issues led to mental health challenges and feeling trapped by the business. Eventually, they found a solution for their son's sleep, but the impact on their mental health was significant.
- 05:57Β Struggles of managing a business, hiring employees, and facing burnout. Made a difficult decision to let go of the entire staff. Also faced the challenge of starting over in a new country.
- 08:39Β Struggling with new routines, relationships, and parenting while living away from family, feeling unhappy and uninspired, the creator realized the need to make a change towards aligning work with true passion and happiness. Even though successful, he sought the excitement and fulfillment he once felt. Ironically, he was working on a video titled 'I lost all my motivation' as he grappled with his own lack of motivation.
- 11:36Β The creator faced a breakdown but is now back and excited about creating videos again, emphasizing the importance of creating for mental health and fulfillment.
- 14:33Β Matt D'Avella is back on YouTube with new projects including regular videos, a short-form podcast, a new YouTube channel, and a weekly newsletter. He expresses gratitude to his audience for their support and looks forward to the next chapter.