Key insights

• 💪 Entering your 30s is situational, focus on lifting heavy weights and running long distances
• 🏋️‍♂️ Cherish your strength and endurance as you age
• 👊 Pushing limits builds confidence and strength in your 20s and 30s
• 🌆 Consider living in a big city for more opportunities
• 🎾 Playing with better tennis players improves your game
• 🤝 Embrace rejection as a part of the journey to success
• ❤️ Choosing the right partner is crucial for happiness and success
• 🌟 Taking uncomfortable risks can lead to positive outcomes

Q&A

• What do men desire for success?

  Men desire financial success and a great partner, which often requires putting oneself in uncomfortable situations, being around strangers daily, and taking economic and personal responsibility seriously. Additionally, getting mentally and physically strong is important.

• What should I focus on for economic security and finding a partner in my 20s and 30s?

  In your 20s and 30s, it's recommended to focus on finding something you're good at for economic security and to approach potential partners respectfully. It's also emphasized not to let fear or isolation hold you back.

• Why is taking uncomfortable risks important?

  Taking uncomfortable risks can lead to positive outcomes and great opportunities, such as finding a great partner. It's important to create opportunities for oneself and be proactive in approaching potential partners or networking while getting comfortable with rejection.

• How can playing with better players improve my skills?

  Playing with better players, such as in tennis, can significantly improve your game. It also creates opportunities to meet new people and build relationships. Additionally, embracing rejection and choosing the right partner are crucial for success and happiness.

• How can I build confidence and strength in my 20s and 30s?

  Pushing your limits is recommended as it builds confidence and strength. Consider living in a big city for more opportunities to aid in your personal development.

• What should I focus on in my 30s?

  Entering your 30s is situational, so there's no user's manual. However, it's suggested to focus on lifting heavy weights, running long distances, and cherishing your strength and endurance as you age.

• 00:00 Entering your 30s is situational; focus on lifting heavy weights, running long distances, and pushing yourself; cherish your strength and endurance as you age.
• 01:14 Push your limits to build confidence, develop grit and strength in your 20s and 30s. Consider living in a big city for more opportunities.
• 02:33 Playing with better players improves your game, create opportunities to meet new people, embrace rejection, choose your partner wisely for success and happiness.
• 04:00 Taking uncomfortable risks can lead to great opportunities, such as finding a great partner. Creating opportunities and being proactive are key to finding success in various aspects of life.
• 05:31 In your 20s and 30s, focus on finding something you're good at for economic security and a great partner. It's okay to approach potential partners, but do so respectfully. Don't let fear or isolation hold you back.
• 06:58 Men want financial success and a great partner, which requires putting oneself in uncomfortable situations, being around strangers daily, and taking economic responsibility. Also, getting mentally and physically strong is important.