Key insights

• 💸 Traditional dating becomes expensive for successful men
• ⚖️ Expecting time, attention, emotion, and provision without providing sex in return is one-sided and expensive
• 🚫 Super attractive women and successful men avoid conventional dating due to its high cost
• ⏳ Limited time and emotional bandwidth make traditional dating unattractive for successful men
• 👔 Successful men use escorts as a cost-effective solution in the dating pool
• 🧠 Scarcity vs. abundance mentality, Delegating time and resources for increased earning potential
• 🛌 Escorts provide more control, guaranteed sexual encounters, and a better overall experience
• ❓ Challenges traditional dating dynamics and raises questions about fair deals in relationships

Q&A

• What is the average cost for successful men to hire escorts compared to traditional dating?

  The average rate for an hour of sex with a female sex worker in the US is about $250, which successful men consider a bargain compared to the value of their time in traditional dating.

• What are the differences between scarcity and abundance mentality in dating?

  Scarcity mentality keeps people trapped longer than necessary, while an abundance mentality allows delegation of time and resources, leading to increased earning potential. It also highlights the significant expense of maintaining romantic relationships for men.

• Why do some women make traditional dating more expensive for successful men?

  Some women make the dating process more expensive by waiting to have sex, expecting time, attention, emotion, and provision without providing sex in return. This one-sided expectation adds to the expense for successful men.

• Why do some successful men prefer hiring escorts over traditional dating?

  Some successful men find it cheaper and more convenient to hire escorts than to date. Escorts offer them more control, guaranteed sexual encounters, and a better overall experience. This challenges traditional dating dynamics.

• What are the challenges successful men face in traditional dating?

  Successful men face challenges in traditional dating due to the high cost, time investment, and uncertainty of outcomes. Limited time and emotional bandwidth make traditional dating unattractive for them.

• 00:00 Traditional dating is expensive for successful men. Some women make the dating process more expensive by waiting to have sex, which can be counterproductive. Expecting time, attention, emotion, and provision without providing sex in return is one-sided and expensive.
• 03:01 Successful men are unwilling to spend exorbitant amounts on dating or wait for women's approval; women should act fast if they encounter high value men; super attractive women and successful men avoid conventional dating due to its high cost
• 05:46 Successful men face challenges in traditional dating due to the high cost, time investment, and uncertainty of outcomes. Women, on the other hand, have more opportunities for engagement. Limited time and emotional bandwidth make traditional dating unattractive for successful men.
• 08:53 Successful men use escorts because it's less expensive and solves many problems in the dating pool. The average rate for an hour of sex with a female sex worker in the US is $250, but to successful men, it's a bargain compared to the value of their time.
• 11:45 The thinking highlights the differences between scarcity and abundance mentality. Scarcity mentality keeps people trapped longer than necessary. Delegating time and resources can lead to increased earning potential. Getting and maintaining romantic relationships is a significant expense for men.
• 14:48 Successful men find it cheaper and more convenient to hire escorts than to date. Escorts offer them more control, guaranteed sexual encounters, and a better overall experience. This reality challenges traditional dating dynamics and raises questions about fair deals in relationships.