Key insights

• 💰 Men can be rich, attractive, or loyal, but you can only get two at most. Understanding this principle can help women navigate their relationships with men effectively.
• 🚶 Most men are not loyal in their heart of hearts. Possessing one of the three qualities already puts a man ahead of most men.
• 💼 Men start by offering loyalty due to the effort required to be rich or attractive. The speaker delves into an economic model of relationships in his book.
• 💪 Cultivating attractiveness or wealth opens up more and better sexual opportunities for men. The three archetypes of very desirable men are loyal and attractive (Romeo), successful (King), and possessing attractiveness and wealth (Superman).
• ❤️ Different types of lovers include Romeos, Patrons, and Playboys, each with their own strengths and weaknesses in relationships.
• 👩‍❤️‍👨 Advice on engaging with men: focus on investment, not exclusivity; Prince Charming is a myth; be realistic about men's qualities; send feedback and share the video for channel growth.

Q&A

• What advice is provided for women on engaging with men?

  The advice includes focusing on investment, not exclusivity, acknowledging the myth of Prince Charming, being realistic about men's qualities, and sharing feedback to support the channel's growth.

• What are the different types of lovers discussed, and what are their strengths and weaknesses?

  The video mentions three types of lovers: Romeos, Patrons, and Playboys. Romeos are great short-term lovers but may struggle to maintain the magic in the long run. Patrons are rich, loyal, and lavish, but their love may feel transactional and unauthentic. Playboys are sophisticated and charming but may face public censure. Each archetype has its own appeal and drawbacks in relationships.

• What is the insight regarding women's desirability of men's qualities?

  Women learn from men that loyalty is the least desirable among the three qualities. Cultivating attractiveness or wealth opens up more and better opportunities for men. The three archetypes of very desirable men include those who are loyal and attractive, successful, and possess attractiveness and wealth.

• Why do men initially offer loyalty, and what do they commonly aim for in relationships?

  Men start offering loyalty due to the effort required to be rich or attractive. Most men aim for sex with multiple women and are not inclined to be loyal, as discussed by the speaker in his economic model of relationships.

• Why would possessing all three qualities be excessive for a man?

  Most men are not loyal at their core. Possessing one of the three qualities already puts a man ahead, while having two easily places him in the top percentiles. Possessing all three would be considered excessive and unnecessary.

• What is the principle about men's qualities discussed in the video?

  The principle states that men can be rich, attractive, or loyal, but one can only have two of these qualities at most. Understanding this principle can help women navigate their relationships with men more effectively.

• 00:00 Men can be rich, attractive, or loyal, but you can only get two at most. Understanding this principle can help women navigate their relationships with men more effectively.
• 01:44 Many men are not loyal, and possessing all three of being rich, high status, and attractive would be overkill and a waste.
• 03:31 Men start offering loyalty due to the effort needed to be rich or attractive, but they don't want to be loyal, and most aim for sex with multiple women. The speaker delves into an economic model of relationships in his book.
• 05:19 Men learn from women that loyalty is the least desirable among the three goods, and cultivating attractiveness or wealth is the way out. Women desire all three goods but getting just two is considered fortunate. The three archetypes of very desirable men are loyal and attractive (Romeo), successful (King), and possess attractiveness and wealth (Superman).
• 07:18 Different types of lovers include Romeos, Patrons, and Playboys, each with their own strengths and weaknesses in relationships.
• 09:13 Advice on engaging with men: focus on investment, not exclusivity; Prince Charming is a myth; be realistic about men's qualities; send feedback and share the video for channel growth.